“Now What, Universe?”–The Best Focusing Question at any Moment in Time

  While asking “Now What?” might, at first blush, seem to suggest some dissatisfaction with our current situation, I was so convinced and inspired by a recent A-H seminar recording that said that asking, “Now What, Universe?,” is “perhaps the best focusing question that any of you could ask yourself at any moment in time.”  It was explained that Now is where your power is, the juncture of where you…

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Game Plan for Having Automatic Positive Thoughts!

A short re-cap in case you missed the last post.  In our last post we talked about having a plan for those negative thoughts that often crop up relating to issues that are giving you trouble and clouding your vibration.  The idea was to deliberately prepare for that occasional loop of negative thoughts by pre-creating a positive mental picture of the opposite of those issues.  In other words, by pre-planning…

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How Are You Treating “Yo Self”?

If you are a fan of the show “Parks and Recreation” with Amy Poehler and an equally hilarious cast of characters, you may be familiar with the “Treat Yo Self” episode, which was a classic in my book.  Two of the characters who work for the Parks Department and don’t make a huge salary, but have a lot of style, have an annual tradition they call “Treat Yo Self Day.” …

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Let’s Quit Playing Small

We’ve been talking quite a bit about handling what feels like a great crevasse between where we are now standing and our vortex, which contains all of the things we’ve requested from the Universe.  And, it’s been stated in no uncertain terms, and I’ve personally experienced the phenomenon, that making peace, that is, being okay with where you are right now, is the key element in letting in those things…

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Forgive or Forget?

There was a beautiful post by Deborah Moen today regarding our attitude toward others, especially those who may have done something we don’t appreciate.  She said, “Everyone is doing the best they know how to do from where they are .♥” And, I couldn’t agree more about the importance of this statement.  I actually spend quite a bit of time on the subject of forgiveness or getting over what someone…

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It’s Not a “Big” Deal–Really

I’ve been reading some wonderful posts in the Abraham forums, Good Vibe University and from readers of “How to Allow,” and feel a constant theme has been surfacing that’s worth some focus.  We touched on this issue in an earlier post on moving your vibration from impatience to eagerness as the way to line yourself up with your desires. One issue which has emerged and that I’ve definitely experienced in…

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Moving “Grace”fully Toward Your Vortex

  In the last How to Allow blog post, “Are You Using Your Full Power?,” we talked about leveraging the power of the Universe, how our emotional state is so much more important than any action taken because our alignment is exponentially more powerful than any action taken from a place of mis-alignment.  When we’re in alignment, we have not only our own effort working on our behalf, but the…

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Feeling Your Worthiness?

  For most of us the idea of being worthy has pointed to whether we think we’re good enough, likeable enough, deserving enough in the eyes of someone else, especially Source Energy or God or the Universe.  As we’ve explored the best means of Allowing our natural Well-Being in recent posts, it’s become more apparent that being worthy of the things we desire has nothing to do with how good…

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Never Look Back? Power of the Present Moment? Forward Focus?

  I’ve always loved the Fleetwood Mac song “Don’t Stop Thinking About Tomorrow,” but have had mixed thoughts about how much we should focus on what we want to create in our future, versus focusing on our present, where all of our power lies.  It’s also been a bit unclear whether we should look back at our experiences in order to clean up our vibration on our current issues.  Sometimes…

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How Do We Speed Up Our Creations?

  Okay, this is actually a trick question.  I do know the answer and I do know that it’s at the heart of being a deliberate creator, that is, creating what you really, really want.  I also must admit that I could be writing this as advice to myself.  While I have been a great deliberate creator, created some amazing changes in my life and experienced some true miracles, I…

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